Love of Fathers

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Anybody who knows me knows my father.  See even if you never met him you have encountered him in some way in me.  I am truly a product of my father.  Of course my mother can be seen in me too, in my love of games, my artistic side and devotion to needlepoint, but most of the rest of me comes from my father.  My love of cooking, my story telling nature, my sense of humor, my loud voice and imposing presence along with about nine hundred and fifty other traits including the tendency to exaggerate comes from my father.

On this father’s day I want to say thank you to Ed Carter for being such a great supporter, cheerleader, role model and overall generous soul to me.  Although he pushed me all the time to be better, do more, try harder he also gave me options and advantages for which I am truly thankful.  My dad always thought I could do anything.  I am sure that is how I developed my “Not always correct, but never in doubt” personality.

As a child he never missed an opportunity to teach me something that he thought I would need to know even if I wasn’t interested.  I might not have been interested then, but now I am glad I know how to take care of my house, earn money, grow a garden, cook anything, travel the world alone, be generous with others, talk to strangers so they quickly become friends, tip generously, nurture employees, spoil friends, love family and most importantly raise a daughter.

Thanks Dad for being a great dad.  Because of you I picked a wonderful husband who became a great Dad to our child.  Father’s day is not the only day I think about how important fathers are, but don’t let a day go by without knowing that I am surrounded by men who are father’s I love, my own and my daughters.


4 Comments on “Love of Fathers”

  1. kim craig's avatar kim craig says:

    So, Dana, yesterday was 4 yrs. since my dear mother died and through those years with the kids going out on their own and 2 of them being on the west coast, I have come to depend on my dear 87 year old father in the way that I depended on Mom (we called her PG). He just left here after my dear husband (soon to celebrate 35 years of marriage) cooked him his favorite meal with our youngest son, brother and Dad. Thank you for the tribute to your own father and just know that there are others in the world who feel the same way about their own. .

  2. Stuart Wright's avatar Stuart Wright says:

    Dana I suspect you have it absolutely right. I have never met your father but because you channel him so fully I feel I have known him for years. Cheers

  3. Ed Carter's avatar Ed Carter says:

    Dana./.. I certainly do not deserve all this.. But it sure makes good reading!

    I got a chance to see video of Carter riding last Sat. WOWEE! She is really good! Glad you had a fine time at Dickinson!

    Much love. Dad


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