Appreciative Receiver

I don’t tend to needlepoint for people who are not stitchers. People that don’t needlepoint have no understanding of the time and cost that goes into each piece. A fellow stitcher said she has now adopted the same policy when she went to the home of close friends she had gifted many personalized ornaments. She looked at their Christmas tree, up and down in and out, none of her gifts were displayed. She looked all over the house to see if they were hung on a special display. Nothing. She asked about them and was told, they didn’t “match.”

I feel a little bit the same way when it comes to vegetables I have grown. Non-gardeners see a gift cucumber as a .99¢ gift. They have no appreciation for what it takes to grow that cucumber. It’s not about its value on the open market, but actually the sweat that goes into it.

So today when my plumber John called to ask me if I were home, I knew he might be bringing me some okra. For years I have learned a lot about gardening from my plumber brothers. They have given me seedlings they had grown and I cherish them as I try an honor the gift that they are.

When I came home today I found not just Okra, but tomatoes and potatoes from John. I don’t grow potatoes and did not put okra in this year, which he knew. My tomatoes aren’t ripe yet so all these vegetables are an appreciated gift. John knows that I, as a fellow gardener, know what went into to growing these beauties. What a thoughtful gift.

Now don’t get me wrong. You don’t have to have your own garden for me to give you something I have grown. I just have to know you actually want it and will eat it. The worst thing is to grow something and have it get thrown away. At least I won’t be looking through your house to see if the green beans I gave you are displayed.